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It's a question that your average guy wonders when talking to a woman for the first time. He's enjoying the conversation,think she's attractive, and wants to meet her to find out more.
So what's the secret to asking a girl out? Truth is there really is NO magical formula. Most of the time, a conversation filled with flirting and sexual tension will NATURALLY flow into making plans for a future encounter.
But with that being said, there are a few rules and guidelines that you should follow if you want to turn a first conversation into a date with a woman:
#1- Flirting Conversations
Above ALL things, a woman HAS to enjoy the conversation that she's having with you! If she's glancing around the room and looking for a chance to escape, then a date with her will NOT be in your future.
To make her want to date you, she HAS to feel sexual attraction. Unless you create a feeling of chemistry, the BEST that'll happen is she'll think you'll "make a great friend"...YUCK!
When you're talking to a girl, you MUST create sexual tension by knowing how to use the FLIRTING TECHNIQUES. You can flirt by teasing her, joking around, playing flirty games, telling stories, and establishing rapport. All of these tactics will help you spark her interest.
Truth is the MORE you successfully flirt at this point, the EASIER it'll be to get that date! Use the first 10-15 minutes of the conversation to your advantage. Show her that you're a guy that she NEEDS to see again!
#2- Test Her Reaction
EVERYTHING you need to know about a girl's interest is found in her body language. In fact, it's been proven that 90% of all human communication is done on a non-verbal level.
So even if she's smacking you and telling you "what a jerk you are", her body language is saying something COMPLETELY different.
If you want to see if she's interested in a date, you have to study her reaction to your flirting conversation.
Here's your goal... When talking to this girl, you have to sky-rocket her sexual attraction. Whether it takes a few minutes OR a few hours, you must build your conversation to the point where you KNOW she's attracted to you.
How can you tell? Well...EVERY woman has a NUMBER of signals which indicate her level of interest. Here are some common signs of attraction:
~~~> She keeps the conversation going by asking you personal questions
~~~> She's touching you throughout the conversation
~~~> She's laughing and fully engaged in what you have to say
~~~> She's teasing YOU back whenever you're joking with her
~~~> She starts to hint about what you like to do and ask what you're doing during the week.
Now I personally think a lot of these are OBVIOUS signs of interest. Unfortunately most guys don't seem to pick them up. The honest truth is MOST of the time you'll simply *feel* when "it's on" and when it isn't. Use these signs as a guideline NOT as the absolute truth!
#3- Getting the Date
A lot of guys put TOO much emphasis on bringing girls on the PERFECT date. If you want to impress her, don't TRY to impress her. Confusing, right?
The BEST date idea isn't something elaborate. Instead it's bringing her to an activity that you would NORMALLY do during the week. AND you ask her in a way that does NOT come across as a date request.
When the conversation is going well, simply think about what you have going on during the upcoming week. (In the "Flirt Mastery" system you'll learn the importance of being a guy who is out there doing fun, interesting things)
If you follow this advice, you should doing a LOT of things...Are you meeting friends at a bar? Are you going to a concert or sporting event? Even easer, are you going to the mall to shop?
A date shouldn't be a formal, fancy event. It should be a fun, casual activity that gives you a chance to deepen the connection you had during the first conversation. The point is- If you've done the previous two steps correctly (flirt and spark interest), she will WANT to see you again.
At the moment when she's laughing AND having fun, you casually mention what you're doing during the week. THEN simply invite her to come along with whatever you're doing and get her number. It's really that simple!
#4- Text and Call For Re-Attraction
Here's a FINAL step to ensure that this number turns into a date....
Without going to into TOO much detail here, women OFTEN get "buyer's remorse" when giving out their number. If you want to keep her interest, you MUST maintain that sense of sexual tension during the period between the number exchange and the first date.
Bottom line is you have to work on RE-ATTRACTING her. The essence of this technique is you call and text her to keep YOU in the forefront of HER mind. By STRATEGICALLY calling and texting her with flirty messages, she'll subconsciously anticipate your next encounter.
What should you say? Well in the Flirt Mastery guide, there are TWO specific bonuses that help create and maintain that sexual tension after meeting a woman for the first time.
The first is the "Phone Flirting" report which details a complete blueprint for getting a girl's number and turning it into a date. It contains a step-by-step system for calling a girl on the phone and hypnotically steering her towards going on a date with you.
The second guide, "Texting Tactics", reveals SNEAKY techniques for using a cell phone to create AND maintain that sexual chemistry LONG after you two have just met.
In my opinion, text messaging is ONE of the best ways to maintain a girl's interest. With this report, you'll receive ADVANCED training into how to use this tool for your own personal dating success!
And BOTH guides are ONLY available through the Flirt Mastery system.
Asking a girl on a date doesn't have to be a complicated process. As long as you're creating that fun vibe, it's easy to make her interested in seeing you again.
By following the FOUR step plan that I outlined in this message, you'll quickly make her NEED to see you again!
To your success with women.
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